Our minds have an amazing way of creating loops of memories. Memory loops get triggered every time an experience is similar to the original experience. The problem with these mental loops is the fact that we then judge every experience like if it were the same as that original looped experience. This creates entaglements that later become a wall that protects us from a similar experience. The things about a wall is that it does not only block bad things but also good things. You become stagnant in an experience intead of learning and moving on.
To forgive is to accept that the experience was unfair but it did teach a lesson. The lesson should not be forgotten, it was created to help evolve the human expression in this reality. When finally releasing through forgiveness the mental loops stops because the lesson has finally been learned and accepted.
Life is difficult but not impossible. What makes life impossible is the resistance to the lessons and the expiriences. We all have mental loops. What helps release them, is the willingness to create the door and to walk through it.
May your eyes always be open and your mind always be willing to learn.
Zaida Velgara…Becoming I Am