This is so true… The reality is that most people are more hurt about you not bothering with them. Revenge means your still their b*tch. #truthbomb #realtalk #truth #foodforthought #thin #thinkaboutit #doyou #healingjourney #healing #healingenergy #becoming_i_am #becomingiamhealing #zaidavelgara

Do it for you

Our minds have an amazing way of creating loops of memories. Memory loops get triggered every time an experience is similar to the original experience. The problem with these mental loops is the fact that we then judge every experience like if it were the same as that original looped experience. This creates entaglements that later become a wall that protects us from a similar experience. The things about a wall is that it does not only block bad things but also good things. You become stagnant in an experience intead of learning and moving on.

To forgive is to accept that the experience was unfair but it did teach a lesson. The lesson should not be forgotten, it was created to help evolve the human expression in this reality. When finally releasing through forgiveness the mental loops stops because the lesson has finally been learned and accepted.

Life is difficult but not impossible. What makes life impossible is the resistance to the lessons and the expiriences. We all have mental loops. What helps release them, is the willingness to create the door and to walk through it.

May your eyes always be open and your mind always be willing to learn.

Zaida Velgara…Becoming I Am

Weekend Message

We start this weekend with the center card. The image depicts a battle warned woman on a boat. The water is dark and her path is unclear as the only light she is seeing is that of a waxing moon. The fire in her heart is strong, the aura around her head is solid and the staff she holds has a guiding start on top. You might be wondering, why I am describing the image. The imagery is relevant to the energy of this week. It has been a hard, straining, transformative week resulting in many revelations and the need to break old habits and pattern. The changes and stress of the week has left you battle warn. Though you are moving forward, the path is unclear. The waxing moon is indicating that you are moving towards a new beginning or a feeling of wholeness. The only thing guiding you through the darkness is your hearts desires, the connection you have with your guides and your strong will. In the middle of great adversity, when we have been hit so hard we can no longer live the same way, clarity befalls us and a desire to move in a new direction becomes strong.

The moon cards are revealing that the conclusions you need are around the corner. You are currently in the middle of a climax, the worst part of the storm. With meditation and contemplation, you will be able to stay calm and find balance to withstand the storm.

The two mantras to help you weather your storm are…

Loss is my reminder that more room has been made for greater gifts to be received.

The value of my life increases each time I appreciate everything in it.

When everything that we hold dear crumbles at our feet it’s difficult to see how we can start over. Where do we start? What should we do? Where do we turn? Panic can overtake us creating desperation and bad decisions. Remember, when something breaks down it is because we have outgrown it. Appreciate what has remained and what you still have to work for. Follow your heart and know that the universe is always looking out for you. Universal help comes in many forms, at times as blessings at others as lessons. Based on how much you learn and evolve, the period of lessons can end allowing for blessing to be revealed.

Breath, meditate and center, the help you need is right around the corner.

Sending you light and love….. Zaida Velgara

Today’s Message

This week is turning out to be a big evolutionary and transformative time. Adventures and release is asking you to embrace the unknown and let go of fear and expectations. In order to align to source and universal energy, is to allow life to bloom in the way and the time that it needs to. We all have dreams, aspirations and visions as to what we want to become and what we would like to obtain in our lives. To live a life of adventure is to take a chance on the unknown in order to reach your ambitions. Our lives don’t usually go in a straight line, if you release you perception of time or you allow room for change, you are giving creation the power to expand opportunities for something better.

The 2 of rods is letting you know to keep your eyes open to the opportunities the world has to offer. Your future is bright and there is always time for a new beginning. Try not to limit yourself, release your perception of what is too old or too young. We all have free will. Those who live their dreams, do so by releasing judgements and defeatist perceptions. You choose if you want to see your future with light or if you would rather enjoy storms.

The Ace of cups is what you are being offered. The powers that be do not desire for you to be just ok, it desires for your life to be so full of joy and abundance your cup spills over. When you are full of joy, you help lift others up with your light. We are all here to elevate and expand each other, but each of us has to do our part.

The only thing you need to do in order to obtain joy is to all believers. This card is telling you that with out faith, gratitude and acceptance what you desire will be difficult to obtain. If you are not willing to go on the adventure the universe has for you, everything will stay the same. Again, we are tied to our own free will. Though the potential for happiness is around you, you can chose to let it slip away.

Sending you light and love….. Zaida Velgara